Happiness
It turns out (and there are other articles in sciam and sciammind about this) that it is the small everyday things that will make or break your happiness. If there are plenty of little things in the day you get to do that you like, you'll be happy even if you never take a dream vacation to some poor beach country. Good thing too since I dislike most traveling, Id rather take the dog for a run in the park and then spend the money on a good book. What I have never understood is how people can do 2 hours of commute a day (1 hour each way), which was the average in the suburb which I grew up in, since you are only awake 16 hours and need 8 hours to work, 2 hours to eat leaving only about 6 hours of effective "free" time. Two hours is 33% of that! No wonder people feel rushed and that's not counting the decompression time after the travel. But then humans are not usually rational and so they never think about these things. Plus there is one major caveat: happiness is largely "programmed." Most people are born with a certain innate "happiness" and only fluctuate marginally around it, although even an initially happy person can eventually be worn down by things.
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